<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' version='2.0'><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:05:22 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>Dominic's blog</title><description>Dominic Steele tells the story of his family's journey around Australia during long service leave.  (I am not sure what this blog will become at the end of long service leave but hopefully it will be interesting).</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>342</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-1738532892921364162</guid><pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-13T06:05:22.189-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Saturday October 25</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>2008</category><title>Pearl Diving &amp; Camel riding in Broome, October 2008</title><description>&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/NtWW1XunWDQ&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/NtWW1XunWDQ&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was the day we visited the Pearl Diving Museum in Broome WA.  Saturday October 25, 2008.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-1738532892921364162?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/06/pearl-diving-camel-riding-in-broome.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-8593319219314112235</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 10:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-04T03:41:40.661-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Imagine a church that blesses others</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Aboriginal Town Camp</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Alice Springs</category><title>Alice Springs Aboriginal Town Camps</title><description>&lt;object height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/HbLjKJdsfPw&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/HbLjKJdsfPw&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last year on our trip around Australia I visited one of the Aboriginal Town Camps with Pastor Dave from the Lutheran Church. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I talk about this visit in this talk last Sunday at &lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/vodcast/99-Imagine06_DSteele_090531.m4v"&gt;church&lt;/a&gt;...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-8593319219314112235?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/06/alice-springs-aboriginal-town-camps.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-2361105657922158877</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 01:56:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-27T19:02:05.987-07:00</atom:updated><title>Imagine a church that loves the lost</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4841594&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4841594&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/christiansinthemediavideo"&gt;video feed&lt;/a&gt; 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&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-2361105657922158877?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/imagine-church-that-loves-lost.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-6028918918470883555</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 10:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-23T03:47:06.066-07:00</atom:updated><title>How's the building going</title><description>&lt;object width="350" height="268"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4520641&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4520641&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="350" height="268"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People keep asking me how is the building going?  Here's a week by week progress shoot that Andre and Nick put together.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-6028918918470883555?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/hows-building-going.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-1882906353793366873</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 10:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-23T03:28:59.529-07:00</atom:updated><title>Cathie's home</title><description>We called in to the hospital this morning to see Cathie. The registrar  &lt;br&gt;had just been through and told her that she could go home.  So we took  &lt;br&gt;her home.  Praise God for this amazing recovery - 48 hours after  &lt;br&gt;surgery and she is in less pain than she has been for several months.&lt;p&gt;She has been asleep for most of the day.  But she would rather be here  &lt;br&gt;sleeping than at hospital (even with the sound of kids squabbling).&lt;p&gt;It&amp;#39;s been a quiet day otherwise.  Hannah and Solomon&amp;#39;s sport was  &lt;br&gt;cancelled.  Abraham has gone for a sleepover at a mates.  Solomon&amp;#39;s  &lt;br&gt;AFL game tomorrow has been cancelled as well.&lt;p&gt;There&amp;#39;s a BBQ after church that I&amp;#39;m looking forward to.&lt;p&gt;ps Our phone is being switched over to a new phone company so we have  &lt;br&gt;a few days with no home phone.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-1882906353793366873?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/cathies-home.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-3314254148875450704</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 02:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-22T19:42:42.401-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Vision</category><title>A vision template from Stuart Robinson</title><description>This is a template for formulating a ministry vision that Stuart Robinson gave me in 2001 that I have frequently lookd back on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Passion – for the Lord - share own heart - if not with me on this one - need to talk or you need to walk&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Passion – for the Lost - share own heart - if not with me on this one - need to talk or you need to walk&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Prayer – Personal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Prayer – Corporate&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Plan – Core Values ( the priorities and assumptions which describe the personality or character of a ministry. C.V’s are essential for clarifying direction). Examples of C.V.’s include; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; • the priority of reaching the lost&lt;br /&gt; • the priority of mutual ministry&lt;br /&gt; • the priority of equipping believers for ministry&lt;br /&gt; • the priority of fellowship with God and each other&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note: Structures such as house groups or cell groups are not to be thought of as core values. Rather, they are the/a vehicle  by which we can live out our core values.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Plan – A clear statement of Mission – (the ‘why does this particular church exist’ question). Examples include;&lt;br /&gt; • ‘we exist to know Christ and to make him known’&lt;br /&gt; • ‘we exist to reach people and to teach them to follow Jesus’&lt;br /&gt; • ‘we exist to engage with our community, to evangelise the lost and to equip and establish the saints’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Plan – A clear statement of Vision – (the ‘where are we going’ question or the ‘what shape ought our church take’ question). Examples include;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where do we want to be in five years ??  lets dream ??&lt;br /&gt; • ‘Our vision is for men, women, boys and girls to move from being ‘outsiders’ (Colossians 4:5) to ‘disciples’ (Matthew 28:19) within eighteen months.’&lt;br /&gt; • ‘Our vision is to exercise pastoral care and outreach through a developing network of cell churches’&lt;br /&gt; • ‘Our vision is to engage in gospel growth by multiplying congregations’&lt;br /&gt; • ‘Our vision is to provide a safe place for emotional and spiritual healing’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note: Vision is very much a function of leadership. A vision which is borne out of prayer, consultation and research will ‘resonate’ with those in the planning group and will be a unifying focus for the whole church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strengths/Weakness/Opportunities/Threats&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Plan – A clear statement of ministry Objectives – ( the ‘what specific areas will we target in order to fulfil our mission and realize our vision’ question). Objectives are generally non-negotiable. (In setting objectives always ask, ‘can I assign a person to take responsibility for this area?’). Examples include;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Set clear objectives - in which we will principally invest - people/money/prayer&lt;br /&gt; - non negotiable core ministries for the next two years&lt;br /&gt; - contain all ministries under ten !&lt;br /&gt; - work out a goal schedule&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; • To provide a Christ-centred ministry to children&lt;br /&gt; • To provide a Christ-centred ministry to adults&lt;br /&gt; • To provide  a christ-centred ministry in stewarding resources&lt;br /&gt; • To provide a christ-centred ministry in leadership development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LETS HAVE A LOOK AGAIN AT THE CORE VALUES - SO THE CORE VALUES WILL AGAIN SHAPE THE GOALS THAT FLOW OUT OF THE OBJECTIVES.  THE CORE VALUES FORM A CHECK LIST AGAINST WHICH GOALS CAN BE SET FOR MEETING OBJECTIVES.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A REAL SENSE OF OWNERSHIP - BRAINSTORM FOR EVERY OBJECTIVE, TO WORK OUT THE GOALS.  ASSIGN THE GOALS - HIGH ACCOUNTABILITY - SHARE THAT WITH THE WHOLE CHURCH.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Programmes – An Ideas Shedule. In order to set goals (which facilitate objectives), the planning group need to take the time to brain-storm, dream and record their ideas – no matter how ‘out there’ they may seem. Time ought then be spent in prayer. An ideas schedule is to be completed for each objective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Programmes – Goals. Out of the Ideas Schedule a series of &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; • Specific&lt;br /&gt; • Measurable&lt;br /&gt; • Achievable&lt;br /&gt; • Result-oriented and &lt;br /&gt; • Time-dated   goals are to be set.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note: Unlike Objectives, Goals are flexible and mid-course corrections may be appropriate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Programmes – Evaluation. Goals which are ‘S.M.A.R.T.’ can and must be regularly revised and evaluated.  Quarterly and annual evaluations are oft-used time frames.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Programmes – Celebration. Often overlooked, celebration (of goals which have been met) are a wonderful way of encouraging the ‘body’ and bring honour to Christ. Context is also created. This means the church can look back to what God has done in their midst and then boldly step forward with new faith-filled goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note; Programmes put flesh on our Plans which inflame our Passion and inform our Prayer.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-3314254148875450704?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/vision-template-from-stuart-robinson.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-5444590936517804316</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 02:19:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-22T19:24:01.170-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Introducing God</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Post Modernity</category><title>After postmodernity? Pragmatism!</title><description>The &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.com/Introducing-God/"&gt;Introducing God&lt;/a&gt; course we wrote a few years ago is still seen by lots of people as the Christian course most suited to Introduce a postmodern to God.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.com/Start-ultimate-relationship/After-Postmodernity-Pragmatism.html"&gt;But what is next after post modernity?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;If after evidence based modernity (with it's search for truth), comes post modernity (with it's conviction that truth cannot be found), then I am tentatively suggesting (I can't remember where I read it but I now think I agree with the suggestion) that after post modernity comes pragmatism.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;In that if the world has given up caring about what is true then we will do what works.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;I see this in the way the world functions but also in the wider church.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Is this thesis right and if it is how will it impact communicating Christ to an increasingly pragmatic world?  As we come to write version two of &lt;i&gt;Introducing God&lt;/i&gt; what changes would you suggest?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-5444590936517804316?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/after-postmodernity-pragmatism.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-2800981892922116316</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 05:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-22T19:29:50.375-07:00</atom:updated><title>The thinking behind what we are Imagining</title><description>A friend has emailed ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div   style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt;font-family:'Times New Roman';font-size:12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;"  &gt;I'm inspired by the vision stuff you are doing at church.&lt;/br&gt;We are trying to work out a process of developing a vision.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div   style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt;font-family:'Times New Roman';font-size:12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;"  &gt;From watching and listening to your talks I've worked out some of your steps but is there a document you could send me that maps out the steps you are taking to establish your vision?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I think we are 'building the bridge as we walk on it' and are making it up as we go along.  But I'll try to use this blog for the next little while to think aloud about what we are doing.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-2800981892922116316?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/thinking-behind-what-we-are-imagining.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-5542556069032065055</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 05:31:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-21T22:31:21.378-07:00</atom:updated><title>Pastor church to Team church</title><description>I think Arlin Rothauge has lots to teach us about church size theory.&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.congregationalresources.org/article0132.asp"&gt;http://www.congregationalresources.org/article0132.asp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I can see we as a ministry are on the verge of the change from pastor  &lt;br&gt;church to team church.&lt;p&gt;We have been in some ways operating as a team church but it most ways  &lt;br&gt;operating as a pastor church.&lt;p&gt;In order to grow we need to become wholistically a team church.&lt;p&gt;Applications of this are:&lt;p&gt;1. Last Sunday the data projector had the top of the display cut off  &lt;br&gt;meaning you couldn&amp;#39;t easily read the top line of any of the songs.  My  &lt;br&gt;temptation (acting in the pastor church model) was to take  &lt;br&gt;responsibility and get up and fix it.  But acting under instructions  &lt;br&gt;from Matt Lemsing (our executive pastor) I sat on my hands.  He says I  &lt;br&gt;need to train others to take responsibility for things by not fixing  &lt;br&gt;the problems myself.&lt;p&gt;2. On Monday night we have a meeting of our new finance and property  &lt;br&gt;committee (church council in Anglican speak).  I am not going.  This  &lt;br&gt;is not because I don&amp;#39;t care about what decisions are made, but the way  &lt;br&gt;to train others to own the issues is to give them freedom to make  &lt;br&gt;decisions by me not going, then others will step up and lead.&lt;p&gt;I am really excited about both seeing these areas of applying the  &lt;br&gt;theory and us starting to live them out.&lt;p&gt;The church size theory says that it&amp;#39;s hard to move from one size model  &lt;br&gt;to another.  The hardest is the change from pastor church to team  &lt;br&gt;church.  The difficulties are the pastor not letting go and the  &lt;br&gt;members not stepping up (and the recursive pattern that develops).&lt;p&gt;Please pray for us that both I, our new elders (next post) and our  &lt;br&gt;members would all make this change.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-5542556069032065055?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/pastor-church-to-team-church.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-1091197571787597124</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 04:05:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-21T21:05:08.104-07:00</atom:updated><title>Cathie is up and about</title><description>Cathie had neurosurgery yesterday and I have learnt a lot about this  &lt;br&gt;subject in the last 24 hours.&lt;p&gt;She has had serious back pain for a few months now.  She had an  &lt;br&gt;injection a fortnight ago, it reduced the pain somewhat. But she  &lt;br&gt;started to loose function below the waist.  So the doctor on Monday  &lt;br&gt;said go straight to surgery do not pass go.  The operation was  &lt;br&gt;yesterday afternoon.&lt;p&gt;I dropped her at the hospital at 11am and waited with her till 12:30.   &lt;br&gt;The operation list started at 12:30, there were two of them on the  &lt;br&gt;list and she was second.  Theatre for her didn&amp;#39;t actually start till  &lt;br&gt;3pm.  She was out by 5:30pm and when I arrived at her ward (30 mins  &lt;br&gt;earlier than they told me to be there) she had just arrived and was  &lt;br&gt;groggy but conscious.&lt;p&gt;There&amp;#39;s a scar about two and a half inches long on her lower back.   &lt;br&gt;This morning while I was there she did two walks down the corridor.   &lt;br&gt;Her brain is functioning normally, the pain is much reduced and  &lt;br&gt;although she appears to have pretty much full function back.  So it&amp;#39;s  &lt;br&gt;so far so good.&lt;p&gt;I&amp;#39;ve pulled out of a regional planning day on Saturday.  Hannah&amp;#39;s  &lt;br&gt;doing netball on Saturday morning, then we will visit Cathie in  &lt;br&gt;hospital, then Solomon will do AFL and Hannah take Barack to dog  &lt;br&gt;training.&lt;p&gt;I am expecting to be at church on Sunday and looking forward to  &lt;br&gt;speaking on &amp;#39;Imagine a church that loves the lost.&amp;#39;&lt;p&gt;Thanks so much to all those who have prayed and offered support.&lt;p&gt;Dominic&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-1091197571787597124?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/cathie-is-up-and-about.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-8503906237218947029</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 02:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-14T20:53:40.803-07:00</atom:updated><title>Abraham chairing school assembly :)</title><description>&lt;p class="mobile-photo"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-720804-721063.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-720804-721058.jpg"  border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-8503906237218947029?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/abraham-chairing-school-assembly.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-8456250709864285018</guid><pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 01:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-09T05:49:43.181-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>3 3 Wednesday September 17</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Great Keppel Island</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>2008</category><title>Great Keppel Island</title><description>&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/fT59l4U1pnA&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/fT59l4U1pnA&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's a day off so I spent a little time editing up a video from September 17, 2008 - on long service leave.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-8456250709864285018?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/great-keppel-island.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-4786651516445588618</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 03:56:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-02T20:56:35.759-07:00</atom:updated><title>Church building from the inside.</title><description>&lt;p class="mobile-photo"&gt;&lt;a 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src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-7171805629336898642?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/ians-tour-of-upstairs.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-7706231372838522066</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 00:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-01T17:15:29.441-07:00</atom:updated><title>Hannah playing for the Bobcats</title><description>&lt;p class="mobile-photo"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-729443-729517.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-729443-729477.jpg"  border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-7706231372838522066?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/05/hannah-playing-for-bobcats.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-3308903539128926906</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-29T15:04:38.618-07:00</atom:updated><title>Imagine Christ | 1 of 7</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4392443&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4392443&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our project as a church family the next seven weeks is to Imagine what Christ might do through us.  We are spending the time 1. Giving thanks, 2. Setting forward a proto-vision for this ministry and 3. Asking for support.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's linked to the fact that we are opening a new building on October 11, 2009 and so entering into a new phase of ministry.  We are also changing the way we operate from a pastor model church to a team model church.  And we are going to need everyone involved if we are to realise the vision that we think God has given us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's the start of the conversation rather than the last word.  The elders are going to be taking note of what is said and digesting it and then reporting back at our AGM next march with a more concrete vision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the meantime we are also asking all involved with church for their take on how we as a church, their community group specifically and they individually are going at:&lt;br /&gt;* Remembering what Christ has done&lt;br /&gt;* Following Christ&lt;br /&gt;* Loving each other&lt;br /&gt;* Loving the lost&lt;br /&gt;* Blessing beyond&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are also attempting to put the ministry on a sounder financial footing by asking for 12 month commitments of support to both our operational costs and building debt, as well as a one off gift towards the building ahead of June 30.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They are exciting times.  But it marks a change from 'stake in the ground and run,' to planning to be a more settled long term sustainable steadily growing ministry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please pray for us.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-3308903539128926906?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/imagine-christ-1-of-7.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-4201554397219398951</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 07:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-24T00:47:26.475-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Imagine</category><title>New building walkthrough</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4307459&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4307459&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-4201554397219398951?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/designer-ian-imagines-building.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-9020070820021369123</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:44:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-23T03:24:20.144-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Imagine</category><title>Imagine Week Zero | More than you can imagine</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4291548&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4291548&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=0&amp;amp;show_byline=0&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=ffffff&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="230"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Con Campbell kicked off the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Imagine a church&lt;/span&gt; series for us last Sunday.  It was an excellent address on Ephesians 3:20, setting out how God can do more than we can imagine.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may like to repost this series on your blog.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/downloads/99-Imagine00_CCampbell_080421.mp3"&gt;audio&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/vodcast/99-Imagine00_CCampbell_080421.m4v"&gt;video&lt;/a&gt; | handout&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-9020070820021369123?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/imagine-week-zero-more-than-you-can.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-5037529769135204914</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-23T02:43:51.378-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Imagine</category><title>Imagine a church</title><description>At &lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org"&gt;our church&lt;/a&gt; over the next seven weeks in personal bible reading, community group studies and in our Sunday meetings we will be using our imagination.  We are asking ourselves to :&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;26 April 2009 - Imagine Christ&lt;br /&gt;3 May 2009 - Remember what Christ has done&lt;br /&gt;10 May 2009 - Imagine a church that follows Christ&lt;br /&gt;17 May 2009 - Imagine a church that loves each other&lt;br /&gt;22 May 2009 – Thanksgiving Dinner&lt;br /&gt;24 May 2009 - Imagine a church that loves the lost&lt;br /&gt;31 May 2009 - Imagine a church that blesses others (Gift and Pledge Sunday)&lt;br /&gt;7 June 2009 - Imagine a church that parties&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most importantly we will be imagining the difference that a church like this could make for Christ in today’s world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a series about the church, the body of people who together form the church.  It is specifically a series about our church Annandale Community Church/Christians in the Media.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It highlights some of the great themes of the Bible that we are particularly excited about as a church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This series will be conducted in conjunction with an appeal to give generously to our church operational costs and building appeal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The series will stir our imaginations to be a church that truly impacts the world for Christ.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope that you enjoy and are challenged by this series.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-5037529769135204914?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/imagine-church.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-2049025910351487290</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-23T03:04:44.035-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Media Students</category><title>Media Students Getaway</title><description>&lt;p class="mobile-photo"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-748890-748928.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-748890-748924.jpg"  border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got back last night from a brilliant couple of days with Sophie Gyles and a team of media students from UTS. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We also took Abraham and Barack (our fox terrier).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The series we studied was called 'What would Jesus say to Beyonce.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We looked at the first talk at the sweep of the Bible's teaching on marriage and sexuality.  And in the second one at a Biblical take on the Homosexuality debate.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gender roles and Homosexuality are probably the most controversial areas for students studying media at a place like UTS.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a great time.  Please pray particularly for one student who is not yet Christian.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-2049025910351487290?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/media-students-getaway.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-128706038981508795</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 06:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-23T03:08:28.317-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>wedding</category><title>Speaking at weddings</title><description>I got to the Colinda and Brent's wedding an hour early today.  I always do when I am speaking or officiating.  I joked with the couple 'If you muck it up on a Sunday people remember for a week.  If you muck it up at someone’s wedding they remember for the rest of their life.’  (I think Al Stewart taught me that).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There has been so much angst and planning gone into the flowers and the colors and the dresses etc.  And relatively much less thought goes into the really important issue of what is actually said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although I wasn’t speaking today I spent a little time reflecting on how I put together a wedding talk.&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Understand that most of the guests are probably on a ‘first date’ with God and so therefore my aim is to ‘make a little ground,’ commending the experience of coming to church, engaging with God and his word.&lt;br /&gt;- I want people to hear that it is possible to come into a relationship with Jesus as Saviour and Lord and that this will involve trusting and obeying. &lt;br /&gt;- Keep it short.  Remember they are here for a wedding not a lecture or crusade.  No one really wants you go to over ten minutes.&lt;br /&gt;- As you are the first speaker of the day you can cherry pick and showcase the most important information relevant information about the couples relationship with Christ and each other.  I think it's really important to show that the couple are real and serious about their relationship with God and what that looks like in their life and how that will impact their marriage.&lt;br /&gt;- Pick a passage that doesn’t take too much work to give context and background. I often will speak evangelistically from narratives, but rarely at weddings.  I am much more likely at a wedding to pick a propositional text that can be illustrated from either the couple’s life or marriage etc.&lt;br /&gt;- I generally ask people to pick a wedding passage that I haven’t spoken on before so that I am not just in my mind changing the names of the bride and groom from last time.&lt;br /&gt;- See it as an occasional address rather than a regular exegetical presentation.  Therefore this is not really the time for a detailed exegetical argument.&lt;br /&gt;- I have chosen not to use the wedding to address the controversy over gender roles (I’ve not tackled Genesis 2 or Ephesians 5 at weddings).  If people are to go home remembering something I would rather then remember the cross, rather than feminist controversy.  That leads me to put emphasis primarily on the husband’s obligation in laying down his life for his wife as Christ did. (Note this doesn’t mean that I back away from complementarian wedding vows. I am very keen that people model their relationships on Christ and the church in a complementarian rather than egalitarian way.  But I think that the time for teaching this is in the study beforehand rather than in what is a guest meeting.)&lt;br /&gt;- Every talk needs an action point.  What am I going to do.  For the husband it’s love like Christ, for the non Christian guest it’s talk to the couple about what that means, for Christian guests it’s pray for them.&lt;br /&gt;- I make sure that the couple are clear about what is going to be said and then encourage them to ensure that at the reception things said in church are backed up an reinforced.  As everyone expects the minister in church to say Christian things, but it’s when the individuals say later on, off church property, that they believe the things that were said that people may really take notice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I should say that although I have spoken at weddings about every six weeks for the last ten years.  Only about four of them have been for people outside our ministry.  So for those weddings their may be a different approach.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-128706038981508795?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/speaking-at-weddings.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-178162120270321132</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 05:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-17T22:04:16.163-07:00</atom:updated><title>Colinda and Brent</title><description>&lt;p class="mobile-photo"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-756165-756202.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/uploaded_images/photo-756165-756196.jpg"  border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-178162120270321132?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/colinda-and-brent.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-7972770178189344878</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 00:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-17T17:53:26.753-07:00</atom:updated><title>Bob Carr makes an excellent case</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/religion-laws-dont-have-a-prayer-in-a-country-with-robust-common-sense-20090417-aa4w.html?page=-1"&gt;Good point &lt;/a&gt;by former Premier Bob Carr&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-7972770178189344878?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/bob-carr-makes-and-excellent-case.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-130272720484470361</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 23:48:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-17T16:49:54.060-07:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>wedding</category><title>Wedding Ceremonies</title><description>A thought on wedding ceremonies.  I am off to Colinda and Brent’s wedding in an hour or so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am really big on encouraging the bride and groom to learn their wedding vows off by heart and then having them printed in the program.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love it when couples are able to say their promises to each other unprompted on the day because they have gone over the words again and again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It helps teach them and it helps teach those gathered that these promises are real.  When they say the words of the promise they are promises that the couple own.  They have been over the promises again and again as they have met the two or three weeks beforehand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And a side benefit is that it allows me as the officiator to have a detailed discussion about the meaning of the promises a long time in advance, so after that discussion they can start practicing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ps the generous people at St Thomas' North Sydney have lent us their building for the wedding today.  We are looking forward to opening our building in October.  There are two couples keen to get married then.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-130272720484470361?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/wedding-ceremonies.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7761102054054850810.post-3550630027604336429</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 04:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-04-15T21:28:42.069-07:00</atom:updated><title>City Bible Forum - Wednesdays and Thursdays in the CBD</title><description>I'm looking forward to being back at the City Bible Forum in a fortnights' time (Justin is speaking at the moment giving a three week series on suffering).&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When I am back we're doing a series called 'Essential Jesus'&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;During the five weeks we will be encouraging people to give out copies of the Essential Jesus to their workmates throughout the CBD.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The series I am doing is all taken from the Essential Jesus.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;1 Jesus weeps over the city Luke 19:28-48 (April 28, Pyrmont; April 29, Angel Place; April 30, Cathedral)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;2 Jesus challenge to city leaders Luke 20:1-19&amp;nbsp;(May 5, Pyrmont; May 6, Angel Place; May 7, Cathedral)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;3 Jesus, paying taxes and heaven Luke 20:20-39&amp;nbsp;(May 12, Pyrmont; May 13, Angel Place; May 14, Cathedral)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;4 An essential meal Luke 22:7-38&amp;nbsp;(May 19, Pyrmont; May 20, Angel Place; May 21, Cathedral)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;5 Blood sweat and tears Luke 22:39-46&amp;nbsp;(May 26, Pyrmont; May 27, Angel Place; May 28, Cathedral)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I plan to give the same series at our Tuesday lunchtime Bible talks at the Harlequin Hotel in Pyrmont. &amp;nbsp;These talks have been really going well this year. &amp;nbsp;We've been enjoying working together through the logic of Tim Keller's book Reason for God. &amp;nbsp;We will pick that up after this series from Luke.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7761102054054850810-3550630027604336429?l=www.christiansinthemedia.org%2Fsteele%2Fdominic'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.christiansinthemedia.org/steele/dominic/2009/04/city-bible-forum-wednesdays-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Dominic)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></item></channel></rss>